Friday, August 27, 2010

Gotcha Day Celebration 2010

So the day has come and went. Gotcha Day that is. The day that we became parents to Zhang ChunXue. In some ways it seems so much longer ago than 3 years. Yet in others it seems just yesterday. In part, that is because of the awesome group of people who have come into our lives as a result of our adoption travel to China. Our family has grown. Our hearts have grown to encompass these four families in a way that is truly unique. It is impossible to share those moments of becoming parents together and not be bound together in a way that is deeply moving and lifelong. I liken it to being in the delivery room together ( all right that may be a bit of a stretch but not much really). After all two of the four were first time parents. What a privilege to share these precious moments together. They are permanently etched on my heart, irreplacable. What's even more awesome is that our group has stuck together. All equally committed to seeing that our daughters walk through life together. These once a year visits are truly treasures in my Mom's heart. And I know in a short few years, the girls will all feel the same way. Right now, it's just playtime, vacation time. But soon they will realize that they are part of an intimate, exclusive group who in time can lean on each other, learn and grow in understanding of their roots together, and likely share in the mystery of how they came to be US citizens.

Our short four days together came and went all too quickly. But what a whirlwind of fun it was! On Thursday we ate dinner together, played and laughed together and eagerly anticipated the arrival of the rest of our group.





On Friday morning the excitement grew as the rest of our group was due to arrive.

Uh-hum, this might be a good place to add, that most of the time it was excitement. Our Miss Grace had what my father would call a "character building moment" or two as she had to turn her house over to five friends and share all of her toys exclusively. Sometimes it was lovely, sometimes it was ugly. But in the end she's better for it, at least that's what I think :)

Oh the joy when all six girls and all five families were reunited! We ate lunch together, went to the playground together and after dinner we went to the classic Hoffman's Playland together. If I were to place a dollar figure on every smile, squeal or giggle that night I'd say we got a 10-fold return on our modest investment. It was an awesome night.


Six Smiling Girls, Priceless!



The Zamboni Man was a hero to these southern gals...snow in August?! Never mind the playground!


Miss Grace's photo of the Mom's and Dad's playing Catch Up at the Commons (hurry back Ed!)


Now that's alot of Pinkness for one train, good thing we had Sam in the back to keep those girls in line!


Can't you just hear the giggles? What a great day!

On Saturday we took the girls on a special outing to Yaddo Gardens. I must admit, this is the part I was looking forward to the most. Mama Darling from over at Desheng Darling and Doodlebug made these absolutely angelic dresses for all the girls. In like one day. She's amazing.She provided the lovely daisies for their hair too, it's was perfect! We arrived at 10:00 am all bright-eyed and bushy-tailed, ready for the camera with lots of smiles. Don't ask me how things were at 11:00 just as we were leaving, lol! The girls really turned on the charm for our awesome photographers Kyle and Debbie. These photos are a few ours of course. If you'd like to see their work over at Unforgettable Photo email me and I'll send you the event code and password.




Such joy, such beauty, I was overwhelmed to tears. What a wonderful moment to behold all my days...

After Yaddo we all went to the Saratoga Race Course for the afternoon. I think it's safe to say that Sharon was the big winner. We all had a great day, even if we left a little money behind. For me, it's all about people watching and those beautiful horses.

Thank you Debbie for the "back stretch" fun! Notice their matching Anhui Girls shirts? Too dang cute fur words!

After a little rest time, we all had dinner together for one last time and some yummy S'more for dessert. Thank you Mr. Skip! Oh, and this would be a great time to insert another genunine "Thank You". This one is for the brothers who have given the limelight over to their sisters for three days straight. You guys are AWESOME brothers!


What a tasty way to wrap up a super fun day!

Sadly Sunday had to come. We all met for breakfast at their hotel so we could have one last bit of time together. Did I mention that we snuck in the back door and crashed the breakfast buffet? The girls romped and played one last time before we gave lots of hugs good-bye for one more year.


Footnote to Sunday...

After the largest part of our group left we decided to show the Darling Family a little bit of the Adirondack Park. Since it was a rainy day, what better thing to do than take a ride? The girls were great in the car while the grown-ups chatted a little more. We did as much as possible considering the soggy day. Then we wrapped up the fun with a little Mexican food for our Texas friends with hearts truly a big as Texas. We miss having you as "neighbors". Can't wait until we all meet again.

Still Smiling ~ Kate-Lyn

Monday, August 9, 2010

Just 'Cuz...

Ya know how you take a photo and you just can't stare at it enough? Likely it's of your children or someone or some place that is really special to you. You know the ones, well here are a few recent ones that I just can't help but post, just 'cuz...






In Sweet Reverie ~ Kate-Lyn

Monday, July 26, 2010

SU Lacrosse Camp

The day has finally come. The day that they have been talking about, planning for and wishing time would fly by for...



Syracuse University Lacrosse Camp has begun. They are on campus, doing as SU players do. This is their highest aspiration. What they are working hard to achieve. I pray nothing gets in their way.




Have a great week guys. Play hard, learn alot and have tons of fun. Can't wait to hear all about it!

Happy Lax Mom,

Kate-Lyn

A Perfectly Perfect Day...

Today we quite spontaneously decided to go to the Saratoga Race Track. Actually, it was our little giveback to Grace for all the time she's spent on the lacrosse field since May when the season began. She majorly deserved this day of "horse fun". This was her first trip to the track and it was great to share in her excitement. The fun started right away when we were parking the car and she saw all the horses in their stalls. She was SO excited, turning heads with her squeals of delight out the window from the back seat.




Little did she know what lay ahead. Awe set in again as we walked to the gate and she watched the thoroughbreds getting their baths from the grooms.


Today was "Hats Off to Saratoga Day" where the ladies wear their fancy hats to the track. We did our best, but it was a lame attempt compared to others. Perhaps next year I'll get out my hot glue gun and really do it right.


At the gates, ready to buy our tickets...



Girls in Hats, what fun!

When we got inside she played on the playground, ate some yummy track food (I suggest the sausage and peppers personally), checked out the bathroom (she was amazed at the lady handing out towels and candy), people watched...




...need I really say anything?

Then, finally, the first race started. She must've asked a million, no two million, questions. Thankfully, she's only four 'cuz I know zip,zero, nada, about racing. But in her eyes, I knew EVERYTHING. Oh how, I miss those days with the boys, lol!


And their off...!

Equally fun to our Grace was the cooling off walk where these gorgeous animals come up close and personal.



Or the Post Parade...



All in all, it was an awesome day at the track indeed. But, all good things must come to an end sooner or later. So to help soften the blow, we decided to take a stroll in Congress Park. Much to our delight the Shakespeare Actors were there performing Hamlet. So, naturally, we pulled up our chairs and enjoyed this wonderful talent. Miss Grace again, asked a million questions (mostly she needed translation, lol!). She was good up until the part where Ophelia died. Then when Hamlet got in the sword fight, she decided she couldn't watch any more. She kept hiding her eyes, then peeking out asking if it was over yet. It was half cute and half not when she just couldn't get the concept that they were REALLY just pretending.

Thankfully, when the play was done the actors strolled the lawn and she got to see that Ophelia REALLY was alive and well.



And Hamlet too...


Not wanting to end the fun times, we had a picnic dinner in the park too while we waited for a concert to follow. Naturally, we needed dessert too. So we strolled Broadway to find a potty yummy treat.


Thank you Coldstone Creamery!

No trip to the park would be complete without some photos our our little one in the beautiful evening light at the Canfield. Well done, Daddy!






Or some candids taken by our own budding photographer, Miss Grace...



Warm, beautiful summer days like this just make you wanna dance...



It just brings out the kid in all of us...



What a perfect day indeed!

Joyfully,
Kate-Lyn

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Girls Day Out...

Yesterday I called Elizabeth's Mommy and asked if she was available to do something spontaneous. She (as I 90% expected) said, "Yes".  I love that about her! So we took Elizabeth and Grace to the "Spa City" or "the City in the Country". To most adults this beautiful city represents horse racing, gambling, our own Socialite Marylou Whitney, trying to catch a glimpse of a celebrity in August, entertainment on Caroline Street and shopping on Broadway.

Speed ahead to two good friends who are 3 and 4 years old. To them it has an entirely different meaning...

....like

Playing Ring-Around-The-Rosie in the Rose Gardens



Or...




Pretending to be movie stars at Yaddo

Or...





A smiled-filled ride on the historic carousel in Congress Park


And the best for last....



An ice cream at Ben and Jerry's on Phila Street

Ah, does summer get any sweeter than this?

"Best friends are the most important ingredient in the recipe for a happy and fulfilled life."
Author Unknown

Monday, July 12, 2010

A Lovely Place To Share...

We are fortunate to have an artist's retreat near our home. It provides peace, sanctuary, inspiration and fertile ground for musicians, filmmakers, writers, composers, photographers, sculptors and artists to create their masterpieces. To me it is a place where to reflect, to let your mind slow down and appreciate God's beauty all around.

Yesterday Grace and Daddy went there for the first time this year. Likely, the first time she truly remembers being there. She loved it and had some inspiration of her own as she shot these great photos

...of her Daddy.



...and of the pergola which has recently been lovingly restored to it's original grandeur



A few more shots from Daddy...

Welcome to the Garden!



Koi Fish

Cooling off by the fountain


Ah...oh so sweet!

Beauty to behold

A Lovely Place Indeed

Side Note: In August our travel group is coming to visit (I'm SO excited!!!) and I have this on my list of "must do's". I CAN'T WAIT to shoot some photos of the girls in this lovely setting! Did I mention how utterly, overwhelmingly excited I am that we will ALL be together again??!! Somebody give me a pill!!

Only 37 more days, but who's counting...?

Fourth of July 2010

The Fourth of July is my second favorite holiday of the year. Christmas comes first of course. I guess what makes the Fourth so special is because it encompasses so many significant elements of life for me.

Things like...

Freedom

though it doesn't come for free by any means. Yesterday I said "Goodbye and God be with you" to one of Ryon's good friends who leaves for Afghanistan on the 21st of this month. He's 19 years old. He's flying a world away to defend his country. He's one of SO many who choose this honorable duty. I am humbled by his commitment and those who have gone before him. I am grateful for those who we owe so much to. And their families who sacrifice too for their countries sake. May God keep each and every one safe and hold them in His grip until they return home.

sweet freedom flag sun Images

Family

 in all of my Forty-something years I have spent this holiday at the lake. OK, technically I missed one when I was 15 to take a trip to Florida with my sister. In our family the Fourth of July = time at the lake, a parade, a BBQ


Cousin's Looking for Lucky Clovers


Getting Ready for the Beach

And Friends...!


Ross and Bob


Fishers of Minnows


Sweet and Sweeter


The Mom's Club

"Father" John leads the masses


 
A Merry Group Indeed!